Blog Post #22: Unsolicited Advice (NEW PARENT Edition): The Comedy of Random Parenting Tips
Welcome to the Fresh Diapie Social Club, where we dive headfirst into the chaotic world of new parenthood with a hearty laugh and a wink. Today’s topic? The unsolicited advice marathon that seems to start the moment you announce you’re expecting. Let’s face it, everyone suddenly becomes an expert on how to raise your child, and it’s as delightful as a toddler with a permanent marker. Buckle up for a funny and antidotal journey through the wild world of unsolicited parenting tips.
The Top 10 Unsolicited Advice Complaints New Parents Get
“You’re Holding the Baby Wrong!”
What They Say: “Oh dear, you should be holding the baby like this, not like that.”
Why It’s Annoying: Because nothing says “I’ve got this parenting thing covered” like having a stranger critique your baby-holding skills. It’s like getting fashion advice from someone in a bathrobe.
“When I Had a Baby, We Did It Differently!”
What They Say: “Back in my day, we used cloth diapers, not these fancy disposable ones.”
Why It’s Annoying: It’s a classic case of “I walked five miles to school, uphill both ways.” Just because your way worked for you doesn’t mean it’s the only way to avoid diaper blowouts.
“You Should Let the Baby Cry It Out!”
What They Say: “A little crying never hurt anyone. Just let them cry.”
Why It’s Annoying: As if you’re deliberately torturing your child for fun. Plus, “cry it out” is a lot easier said than done when you’re sleep-deprived and your baby’s wails could rival an air raid siren.
“Have You Tried [Insert Random Product Here]?”
What They Say: “This gadget worked wonders for my kid. You should definitely try it.”
Why It’s Annoying: Because your baby doesn’t come with a manual, and neither does your neighbor’s child-rearing technique. Your life isn’t an infomercial, and your baby isn’t a test subject for every new gadget on the market.
“You’re Spoiling the Baby!”
What They Say: “If you keep picking them up every time they cry, you’re spoiling them.”
Why It’s Annoying: As if there’s a universal rulebook for baby care that they’re holding, and you’re somehow breaking all the rules. Spoiling? More like “loving your baby to the best of your ability.”
“Are You Breastfeeding?”
What They Say: “You know, breast is best. Are you breastfeeding or not?”
Why It’s Annoying: Because the feeding method is a personal choice and asking invasive questions about it is just rude. Your baby’s diet is nobody’s business but yours.
“You Should Do More Research!”
What They Say: “Have you read all the books on parenting? You should really do more research.”
Why It’s Annoying: You’re already drowning in parenting advice and 3 AM feedings. The last thing you need is a lecture from someone who probably hasn’t read more than a magazine in the past year.
“They’re Too Cold/Too Hot!”
What They Say: “Your baby looks chilly; are you sure they’re warm enough?”
Why It’s Annoying: As if you don’t already have an internal thermometer attached to your arm. You’re constantly checking to make sure your baby isn’t sweating or shivering, thank you very much.
“When I Was a Kid, We Never Had [Insert Modern Parenting Trend Here]!”
What They Say: “When I was young, we didn’t have all these modern conveniences. Kids turned out fine.”
Why It’s Annoying: Yes, and when you were young, people still thought leeches were a cure-all. Times change, and so do parenting methods. It’s okay to evolve.
“Your Baby Should Be Sleeping Through the Night by Now!”
What They Say: “Why isn’t your baby sleeping through the night yet? Mine did by three months!”
Why It’s Annoying: Every baby is different. Comparing your baby’s sleep patterns to someone else’s is like comparing apples to oranges—except one of the apples might be a nuclear-powered sleep machine.
A Funny Encounter: The CostCo Conundrum
Let me paint you a picture. Imagine you're at a bustling Costco in Queens, NY, with your 6-month-old baby, navigating the labyrinth of bulk goods. Your baby’s happily playing with an oversized box of scrub daddies while you wait in line. Suddenly, a Russian woman, who can’t speak a word of English, storms up to you. She’s waving her finger and gesticulating dramatically.
At first, you’re confused, thinking she wants to ask you about that gigantic pack of spounges. But then it dawns on you—she’s not interested in your shopping list. No, she’s here to give you unsolicited advice on how you’re playing with your baby. You’re bewildered. “Wait, is she telling me I’m not parenting correctly? Did she just critique my baby playtime?”
Amused and slightly exasperated, you realize this is just another chapter in the ongoing saga of unsolicited parenting advice. At that moment, you can’t help but wonder why it’s so crucial for everyone to weigh in on how you’re raising your child. Maybe the next time someone gives you unsolicited advice, you can just smile and say, “Thanks for the tip! I’ll be sure to add it to my collection of completely random parenting wisdom.”
Conclusion
Unsolicited advice from well-meaning but intrusive individuals can be one of the most frustrating aspects of new parenthood. Remember, your parenting journey is uniquely yours, and no amount of unsolicited advice will change that. Embrace the chaos, laugh off the unsolicited tips, and remember that you’re doing an amazing job navigating the wild world of parenting. Thanks for joining us at the Fresh Diapie Social Club, where we celebrate the highs, lows, and hilariously unsolicited moments of parenthood!
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